This is a story that for whatever reason, I haven't shared on this blog before. Maybe it's because it's so long and many people might not have the time to read it all? But it's a good story, I think. One that might have many marveling at the serendipitous nature of the universe. Personally, I believe this is a "God thing". The chances of this happening as they did cannot be calculated. And yet the elements fell precisely into place, more beautifully than anything that a person could probably come up with on their own.
I shared this story earlier a few days ago on a friend's Facebook post, which was about her daughter happening to run into a former next-door neighbor at the Vatican. This story is right up there with that. So here it is. Enjoy!
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It was the summer of 1993. July 5th to be exact. When I was 19 I spent a few weeks visiting a dear friend in Belgium. Bennie was in med school at the time so one day while she was in class, I was running loose on the streets of Brussels. We were going to meet up that afternoon to catch a movie.
It was about noon, and I was leaving the Cathedral of St. Michael and St. Gudula, when these three young people - they couldn't have been out of high school - approached me and tried saying something in French. All I could do was say "sorry folks but I know very little French, I'm from America."
That got their attention. It turned out that they were from Russia, from Moscow actually. And they knew English fairly well. It was two guys and a young lady. They told me that they were with a group that was traveling around western Europe, now that Russians could do that sort of thing.
They asked me if I knew where the big square, Grand Place, was. I told them that I knew exactly where it was and that I could take them right there. So that's where we headed to. And we were talking, sharing where we each were from. And I said that I came from North Carolina.
This excited one of the two guys. He said he had heard of North Carolina. He had met some people from North Carolina, even. They had come to his school a year and a half earlier. He even had their picture with him.
He reached into his backpack and pulled out a Russian Bible. He said he carried it everywhere with him. And in the Bible he had a photo of American young people who were missionaries who came to his school.
"This one, she came from North Carolina," he said, pointing to a blond girl of about 16 years old. "Her name is Christy. When you go back to North Carolina, say hello to her from me!"
I told him that North Carolina was a fairly large state. But "I'll tell her if I ever see her."
We were in Grand Place while he was telling me about the girl from North Carolina. They asked if I knew any place there to eat. I suggested a pizza restaurant that I had seen a few days earlier. That's where we went to, and this was the very first time that any of these kids had a chance to eat real pizza. I bought a large one for all of us, my treat. It was just so much fun meeting these young people about my age from Russia, and talking with them over pizza. It was a great experience 🙂
We were there for an hour and then it was getting to be time for me to go meet Bennie. I said goodbye to the Russian kids and the guy who asked me to say hello to this Christy person showed me her picture again. I told him that I'd do my best to find her.
I spent another week in Belgium and Bennie and me had a blast! We were in Paris for two days and that was an amazing time. And then sadly we had to say goodbye and I flew back home and spent the next week and a half getting over jet lag (laughing aloud).
It was a long shot, but I decided to try to find Christy from North Carolina. I spent the next two years leading up to my transfer to Elon looking for her. And then when the Internet came about I tried finding her through that. So for five or so years on and off I was looking for this person. Because I'd promised some Russian kid in Brussels that I would. And I kept coming up empty. I'd wondered if the Russian guy had the right location when he told me where Christy was from.
So eventually I gave up on looking for her.
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Now the story jumps to the fall of 2003, a little over ten years after meeting the Russian students...
My wife and I had been visiting churches around where we lived, looking for a place of regular worship. I came across one that the kids there were washing cars to raise money for a mission trip. They seemed like a good bunch so we visited their church during Sunday service. And my wife and I decided we liked the people there a lot and so we made it our place of worship.
The pastor had told me that the church didn't have a website but they had wanted one. I thought it would be a neat project, and I told him that I'd be glad to help them get that going. So we set about designing a church website.
I was in the pastor's office one evening, he had stepped outside to do something. And I found myself looking at the pictures he had on a bookshelf. Obviously of his family. There was his wife, and two young men who were obviously his sons. And there was a young woman who was apparently his daughter.
Something about her photo kept making me want to look at her. She seemed familiar. Like I knew her from some place.
Wait a sec...
She reminded me of the girl in the photo in the Russian kid's Bible ten years ago in Brussels, Belgium.
I took a long hard look at his daughter's photo on the wall. And it did indeed look like the girl in the Russian kid's photo.
No. That wasn't possible. That was ABSOLUTELY impossible.
When the pastor returned, I told him that I had been admiring his family photos. And he talked a little about them. His wife, their two sons, their daughter...
"This sounds weird but I can't help but think that I've seen your daughter before."
I asked the pastor what her name was.
He replied that her name was Christy.
I cannot begin to describe the thoughts that were running through my head when he told me that.
I told the pastor that I wasn't sure if she was the person I had in mind. I asked him where had she been, maybe our paths had crossed some other way, somehow.
He started telling me that his children had all done mission work.
"Where has Christy been?"
He told me that among other places she had visited Russia for two weeks in the fall of 1991.
My jaw would have hit the floor, had it not been hinged to my skull.
I almost fainted with disbelief. When I regained my composure I told him the story, about the Russian teenager in Brussels ten years earlier asking me to tell Christy hi when I got back to North Carolina.
"Do you have any pictures of her from about that time?" I asked him. He said that he did at his house and that I could follow him over there.
We got to his house. And right up on the wall going up the stairs there was a framed photo of his daughter... wearing the same outfit as the girl in the picture I had seen in Brussels.
All along, the person I had been asked to look for ten years earlier, by a student from Moscow on the streets of Brussels, had been less than fifteen miles from where I'd grown up.
And we had wound up at the church where her father was the pastor.
Some time later, I asked a mathematical genius friend of mine about what were the odds of all of that happening as they did. She replied that with so many factors to consider, the odds were incalculable. It simply should not have happened like that, at all.
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A few weeks later after making that discovery, I got to meet Christy. And at long last I told her "hello" from the Russian kid. I'm Facebook friends with she and her husband (they share an account). They've been blessed with a beautiful family and recently became grandparents.
For as long as I live, how I came to know about her and our eventually meeting each other will never stop blowing my mind. It's a mathematical miracle. And maybe more than that. For those of us who believe in God, it really does come across as something that only He could have let come about.
Not the strangest thing to ever happen to me, but it's up there.





















