Sigh...
I shouldn't have to make this post. But as it seems how EVERYTHING today is supposed to be qualified, quantified, factionalized and most especially sexualized...
Contrary to what some have claimed, I do not now nor have I ever harbored any kind of hatred toward those who have chosen the homosexual lifestyle. Or who are bisexual. Or transsexual. Or whatever.
As a Christian, I am called to not hate anybody. I am in fact commanded to hate my own sin and my own fallen carnal nature, before I dare levy hatred toward another. It is part and parcel to the "dying unto self" that those who follow Christ are told that they must do on a daily basis.
That does not mean however that I can or must acquiesce to any activity that is self-destructive.
And that, is what LGBT behavior is.
I've seen the damage and disease and ultimately death that is wrought by homosexuality. Have looked at the photos of lacerated anal tissue. Viewed images of penises wracked with things that no healthy male should have. I have read the journal articles, about gay men and lesbians being far more prone to cancer than those who are not. Human papillomavirus is a really nasty thing to subject one's genitalia to. I have looked into the faces of people who have contracted full-blown AIDS, and those are eyes that I pray I never have to look into ever again.
Homosexuals have, on average, a lifespan twenty years shorter than that of heterosexuals.
Let that sink in. A gay or lesbian person is likely to have two full decades shaven off their life expectancy, because of the all too physical consequences of homosexual behavior.
These are not things that can be "wished away" for sake of sexual license. These are stone cold hard facts. This is reality, that can NOT be escaped from because of one's "feelings" about the matter.
LGBTwhatever is incompatible with human design. Its myriad of associated diseases and disorders attest to this.
How do I, as a person called by God Himself to love others, reconcile that love with the expectation that I am to celebrate a "lifestyle" that leads so very often to death?
I can not. I can no more endorse the LGBT community than I can endorse cigarette smoking, or abusing crystal meth. Because those are self-destructive behaviors also.
I can love homosexuals. I can love lesbians. I can love bisexual individuals. I can love transsexuals, though what they do to themselves is especially haunting.
But as a Christian (who fails and falls more often than not), as an objectivist who understands the concreteness of reality, as merely a human being trying to be decent... for those reasons and more, I can not love their kind of behavior. Because when you scrape away everything else that's Chris Knight, you're left with someone who simply does not want to see anyone die.
No, "love is love" is not true. There are many kinds of love. There is philios: love of brothers and sisters. There is the love of parents to children. There is logos: the love of God. And, yes, there is eros: love expressed sexually between man and woman.
What the LGBT community and its supporters demand we accept is not love at all. It is lust. And they want said lust to be without the burden of personal responsibility. And THAT again is a denial of reality.
If you love a person... and I mean really love someone, you will NOT selfishly lead that person to demean themselves for your own desires, at risk of their health and even very life.
I love my friends. There are men who are as close and dear to me as real brothers. I love them and I would die for any of them. But not for an instant have I been tempted to take it to an entirely different and inappropriate level.
Once upon a time, not very long ago, most men and women were capable of accepting that. That love is a many dimension-ed notion and that each kind had its own unique place in the scheme of things.
We were a better people, then. Not a perfect people. But we were at least striving against the baser instincts of carnal nature. And we accomplished great things because of it.
As a historian, I know also where unrestrained sexual pleasure leads a society to. And that as much as anything else persuades me about the truly insidious nature of the LGBT lifestyle.
I could easily sit here all night, and rattle off a dozen reasons and more why I can not celebrate homosexuality and transgenderism. Just as easily as I could tick off all the reasons why I must condemn it.
And I hope that my many friends who are LGBT will at last understand where I'm coming from.
Finally, know this: sex is a sacred, holy thing. It is something that I believe should be celebrated within the boundaries of husband and wife. In my sincere philosophy ALL sexual sin is equally abhorrent. I can not disapprove of LGBT behavior any more than I can of sex outside of marriage. That makes me come across as a prude, I know. But there it is. I have plenty of friends who do not agree with this. And that is fine. But so far as I know none of them have called me "hate-filled" or "polygamaphobe" because of it.
Sex is not a toy. It's not something to be engaged in frivolously. It is meant to be a sanctified act. "The marriage bed is to be honored by all," scripture tells us. If that was done more often, maybe we wouldn't have things like children without fathers, venereal disease and shortened lifespans.
That is all.