holidays

Tomorrow is Thanksgiving here in the United States.  And though it has been adopted by a few other countries, the American observation of the holiday remains a unique one.  Thanksgiving has been part of America’s identity since the early seventeenth century, most notably by the Pilgrims of the Plymouth colony in 1621.  The notion of the American people giving thanks to God for the blessings He had bestowed was further ingrained by the Continental Congress in 1777.

And then in 1789 President George Washington famously proclaimed a day of national thanksgiving.  That pretty much sealed the deal.  Thanksgiving would forever be a sacred time for the American people.

My experiences with Thanksgiving have been varied.  Some of them have been good.  Others, not so much.  I don’t want to dwell on the latter though.  I like to believe that recent years, months actually, have brought deliverance from much of that ...

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So, this past week a memory just popped into mind.  About something I had written a long time ago as a student at Elon.  Awhile back I discovered an online archive of every issue of The Pendulum, which was the college’s newspaper.  I’ve shared a few of the op-ed pieces I wrote for the paper already.

I don’t know why I found myself thinking of it but I went looking for it.  And lo and behold I not only found it, but I realized today is the twenty-fifth anniversary of its publication!

Maybe there is something at work, that such synchronicity happened right just now.

For many years at Christmas time I posted the text of this piece.  It was a holiday tradition for this blog.  But I haven’t done that in a long while.  Maybe this year would be a good occasion to bring that tradition back.

Well ...

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It was 1983, forty whole years ago.  At the White House.  “Santa Claus” came that year in the form of Mr. T.  Here he is with beloved First Lady Nancy Reagan sitting on his lap:

Damn it.  What the hell has become of us, since then?

We aren’t like that anymore.  Our culture and society has become so degenerated that something so playful like that photo would be practically impossible in today’s environment.

But once, in seemingly a better time and a different reality, we honestly were like that.

I like to believe that we could be again.

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Hey gang, hope the holidays have been going well for y’all!  Christmas was rather good on this end.  I wound up with some Star Wars, some LEGO sets (Christmas is NEVER complete for me without Star Wars and LEGO no matter how old I get), some clothing, my mini dachshund Tammy received a bunch of toys.  And one way or another a lot of new cooking stuff came into my possession.

And speaking of cooking, steer your peepers onto this bad boy:

That’s the first turkey I’ve been able to deep-fry since Christmas 2013!  Between my father passing away just before the following Thanksgiving, journeying across America and to a new hometown, getting situated in a house etc. it just wasn’t practical all this time.

But Christmas Eve 2019 was a glorious return to feeding my irrational addiction to fried turkey.  I got a shiny new rig and it was
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Kristen and me on Christmas Day at her parents’ house…

Despite everything she says, I still insist that she is far too sweet, fun and beautiful for a guy like me to be blessed with 🙂

I am feeling led to say something here. That this Christmas was, for more reasons than I can possibly count, THE best Christmas that I have been able to enjoy in a very long, long time.

It was the first Christmas that I have had without Mom. In fact, it was a year ago today that we had her funeral. And in a lot of ways this was a trying and difficult year in other aspects as well.

But when I see the person I was a year ago, the time that I was going through then… and then now, how far God has brought me in that time, how He has blessed ...

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Let’s dispense with the floridity and get to the point:

The holiday season has been damn near ruined by commercial madness.

I’m hearing that some families are having their Thanksgiving gatherings destroyed by Wal-Mart and other retailers mandating their employees be working on Thursday morning. Yeah you read that right: a number of stores are opening at noon on Thanksgiving when everyone else will be gorging on turkey and watching football.

I got a bad vibe when stores like Wal-Mart and Target began putting the Christmas stuff out before Halloween. That’s two full months of holiday marketing. One-sixth of the entire year devoted to holiday spending.

Now the radio stations are following suit. 99.5 out of Greensboro – which has traditionally not begun playing Christmas songs until the day after Thanksgiving – is already blaring out 24 hours round the clock of holiday music.

Gad-dommit, STOP IT ALREADY!! I’m ...

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The bouquet of roses I got Kristen for our first Valentine’s Day together:

Also got her a box of candy, a card, and I’m cooking her dinner too! A pizza with the pepperonis in the shape of a giant heart.

I would have also gotten her a gift certificate to the day spa, a pair of diamond earrings and a new car but hey, it is our first Valentine’s after all. Got plenty of time to build up to bigger stuff 🙂...

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Saint Valentine was a Christian who was imprisoned, gruesomely tortured, and finally beheaded on orders from Emperor Claudius II of Rome on February 14th, 270 A.D. 

Lord only knows how we came to remember the occasion by giving cards, candy and flowers.
 
HAPPY VALENTINE’S DAY from The Knight Shift!
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